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TMS #018: The Power of Gratitude
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Do you know the power of gratitude?
Gratitude improves your health, reduces stress, and boosts your happiness. It can even help you manifest your desires faster.
I’ve got lots of gratitude tips and tricks here. It’s time to get grateful!
There are a lot of talks these days about gratitude. It’s the new self-help buzzword, mentioned in everything from Oprah’s magazine to a very popular TED Talk.
What may be surprising to some is that this isn’t just another fad; it has its roots in science and even biology. Research has shown that being grateful can help us sleep better, boost our immune systems, and make us more generous with time and money. It even increases our happiness on a moment-to-moment basis! But why does gratitude work so well for us?
In this article, I’ll share some ways you can get these benefits by being grateful for things every day.
What is gratitude?
Gratitude is the appreciation of what you have. A grateful person sees and appreciates the good in life, even when times are tough. It’s an attitude of being thankful for all you’ve been given and all the gifts that come your way.
As a practice, gratitude means looking for the bright side of things, even when it seems complicated. With practice, it becomes easier to notice what’s going well each day, whether it’s a sunny summer day or a challenging situation at work or home. Gratitude helps you appreciate life more. You experience it moment to moment instead of looking forward to “when” something changes for you (or not).
The benefits of gratitude
The research on gratitude is growing, and the benefits are endless:
Gratitude helps you focus on the good things in your life. When you feel grateful, what do you think about? Do the things that make up your daily life come to mind? The kindness of a stranger, your child’s laughter, or a favorite piece of music? Or do negative thoughts — an argument with a friend or colleague, for example — dominate? Research shows that thinking about gratitude can improve well-being. It helps people focus on the positive aspects of their lives rather than the negative (Kashdan & Rottenberg, 2010).
Gratitude helps build resilience. Building resilience means having the ability to bounce back from adversity. So you can face future problems with confidence and strength (Fredrickson & Losada 2005). Most resilient people have strong social support networks and have effectively learned how to manage stress (Zinbarg et al., 2007). Gratitude is vital in both areas: it makes you more likely to help others when they need you (Seligman et al., 2006). It strengthens your social network. At the same time, spending time reflecting on your blessings helps you learn new ways of coping with difficult situations (McCullough et al., 2002).
Gratitude and happiness
In a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, researchers asked participants to keep a daily journal for ten days. They had to write down five things that had happened to them each day and explain how grateful they felt about those experiences. The results showed that people who supplemented their happiness with gratitude exercises were more likely to feel happy over time than those who didn’t exercise.
So why does expressing gratitude help us feel happier? Gratitude helps us appreciate what we have instead of worrying about what we don’t have. This can lead us down the path of feeling deprived or dissatisfied. When we are grateful for something, we acknowledge our good fortune instead of focusing on what could have been different (or worse) under different circumstances. Research has likewise shown that expressing gratitude to others through words or actions such as buying gifts or volunteering services also helps them feel better about themselves. It makes them feel acknowledged by another person rather than just existing in isolation as an entity without value outside of themselves.
How can you show gratitude?
Say thank you. “Thanks” is a powerful word because it shows that you are grateful for what someone has done for you. If they bring you coffee, say “thank you.” If they help with a project at work, say “thank you.” If someone gives you advice or feedback, say “thank you.”
Give to others. People want to help others but often don’t know how or when to ask for help, so give them an opportunity! Even if it’s just tiny gestures like holding the door open for someone or buying them lunch, these acts of kindness can go a long way towards making someone feel appreciated and valued by others (and by yourself).
Be kind to yourself and others — especially those who may not be as fortunate as we are in life’s journey thus far. Treating people kindly means respecting their feelings/opinions even if they differ from our viewpoints. It could lead us all closer together as human beings rather than further apart due to differences in values.
Being grateful for what you have vs. wanting more things all the time will help drop some stressors from your daily life. So happiness levels go up while stress levels go down. This means fewer health problems later on down the road!
How to develop a daily practice of gratitude
Write down three things you are grateful for.
Do this every day, at the same time each day. This could be first thing in the morning or right before bed. Try to do it before you check your phone or email and sleep.
It’s helpful to write these things down. They’re more likely to stick with you and help guide your thoughts throughout the rest of the day.
I also keep a daily gratitude journal and have tweaked my template over the past few years. I’ll share it with you for free. Just use the discount code “MindLeader”:
Conclusion
To sum up, gratitude is a powerful emotion that can change one’s life. It improves our relationships with others and ourselves. It can even alter our brain chemistry. Gratitude can be difficult at first, but with practice, it will become a habit that will benefit everyone around you!
Cheers,
Christian
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